Assalamualaikum wbt
fairy tales...i believe everygirls in this world have their own favourite fairy tales..and usually the fairy tales is about a beutiful princess living in poor life being rescued by her prince charming...finally they get married and live happily ever after...ngeee!...boriiiiig!...hahaha...as for me, i once have a fairy tales too...and it was long2 time ago...when i was a little girl with a lots of dreams to accomplish...but now,i'm no longer keep a fairy tales story as one of my uncomplete dream...
as a girl...whether we like it or not...we have to admit that, we once used to think the same way on how we r going to meet ur soulmate or love one...and usually it is created based on our favourite fairy tales....but how many of us realy end up the way we were thinking...or at least meet a good guy...get married and live happily ever after...
the statistic has shown that the percentage of married couple getting divoce increase over the year...still they r looking 4 the reasons...in my opinion,b4 we having a reseach on why these people easily get divoced we better doing a reseach on the reason why they r getting married...
people nowaday,especially girls,getting married 4 stupid reasons such as..they getting married bcoz they r afraid of being lonely and being called ANDARTU or ANDALUSIA..or they feel like they r left behind if their friend r getting married first..or bcoz they realy want to end up their life like a fairy tale story...so whenever men asking them to be his wife..they whould never think twice..i'm not saying that all women r like that..but this is what happen in our society...people tend to look at single women like they r doing a wrong thing if they r not married...(especially the old one)...please stop thinking that way..bcoz this is what forcing them to get married to the wrong guy...
maybe some of readers here migth think this is a simple issue..but think carefully , this is one of the issue that usually been left behind when we talking abaut what bring married couple to divoce...seriously,no one want to end up their marrige like that...everyone wants to goes living happily ever after...
as 4 me,i'm no longer hunting 4 a prince charming to come rescued me and bring happiness in my life...bcoz i'm no longer believe in fairy tales...but still,i'm waiting for someone who realy mean 4 me..bcoz no matter how long it would last...or not matter who he would be...i believe that Allah has detemine the rigth one 4 me..insyaAllah..:) thanks 4 reading...:)
"aku mencintaimu kerana agama yang ada padamu...jika kau hilangkan agama yang dalam dirmu...hilanglah cintaku padamu" (Iman Nawawi)
No comments:
Post a Comment